Narcissists are sociopaths with vicious personality disorders. A restraining order is next to keep a former family member from stalking my family. My children live in daily fear of this psychopath. An abuser and narcissist will always try to keep control over you, especially when you leave them . If they can't have you, they will use many other forms of typcal abuse tactics. They will use the courts, they will try to choke you financially, they will smear your name, they will gaslight you...